And next month, my best friend from work for 38 years will retire at 60. But he's the perfect candidate to do that. All of his kids' state college funds were prepaid. He buys only cheap used cars, and drives them into the ground. And his mortgage has been paid-off for years. Plus, most of his family vacations have involved driving and camping, instead of flying and staying in hotels. He's never had anything other than basic cable, and he doesn't even own a cell phone (his wife has one only for emergencies). He has no expensive hobbies or interests. But by retiring at 60, he'll be paying a lot for medical insurance.
Yesterday was his final work day. He turned in his laptop and badge, and the rest of his employment will consist of PTO through the end of July. We did an early lunchtime walk along the walking path, with another longtime coworker. And then we went out locally for lunch. A few weeks ago, we met up with the rest of our lunch gang (the retired ones) for a more celebratory lunch out.
He was my coworker for 38 years; he started 2 months prior to me in 1984. For a while, he was just one of many work friends I had. But for the last 25 years or so, he became the one who always greeted me every morning, and talked about the day, or the weekend. We would always grab breakfast in the cafe together, and he consistently joined me and the others for lunch.
We both did the same work-from-home schedule prior to Covid, with the same 2 days per week in the office. And then when we were both full-time from home, we would make it a point to check-in with each other on chat. There was an unspoken rule, that before starting a work conversation, we'd always ask how the other is doing, or how the weekend went. That's because other coworkers and (especially) managers would see you in the hall, and instead of saying hi, they'd just start in with "how's that project going", "I need you to do something", or "let me ask you".
All of our kids were born and grew up during those last 30 or so years. And now, although I still know a few people from the early days at my company, there's no one I make a point to chat with, either online, or when I go in. So it's going to be something that I'll have to get adjusted to.