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scotchandcigar

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I'm gay and you believe it's a gay guy thing?
I'm half joking, but I tend to think that not many straight guys are into tiktok. I could be wrong, of course, but we have very close old friends who are gay, and certain things (but not everything) that are mostly popular with women are liked by them. We need more gay guys on DRC, and then we can take a poll. Perhaps you can do some recruiting.
 

Wolf

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I'm half joking, but I tend to think that not many straight guys are into tiktok. I could be wrong, of course, but we have very close old friends who are gay, and certain things (but not everything) that are mostly popular with women are liked by them. We need more gay guys on DRC, and then we can take a poll. Perhaps you can do some recruiting.
You know I'm kidding. I know a couple straight guys who are into tiktok. Yea I believe it's more popular with women over men.

We do have another gay guy in the forum. We all know he pretends he acts straight, but he is secretly gay and lives not far from the gay mecca of Key West.
 

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Family issues, death, school, etc. I'm around a little more often, although still will have disappearing acts on occasion.
Update: Working on the house in probate for possible sale, which we'll split amongst my siblings and I, just took a paycut at work (still have a job thankfully) and on top of everything else was diagnosed ADHD by my doctor, now taking adderall to combat that.

2022 can fuck right off!
 

HecticArt

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Good luck with the job stuff. Like you said, at least they didn't lay you off. But hey, SOOOOO many people are hiring right now, it can't hurt to look around. You never know.

The ADHD thing ain't a thing. Half of us on the forum probably have some degree of it, and half of my coworkers probably do too. Hell, I'm positive everyone at my last office had it. I dont think I ever heard a complete sentence spoken at that place.
 

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Good luck with the job stuff. Like you said, at least they didn't lay you off. But hey, SOOOOO many people are hiring right now, it can't hurt to look around. You never know.

The ADHD thing ain't a thing. Half of us on the forum probably have some degree of it, and half of my coworkers probably do too. Hell, I'm positive everyone at my last office had it. I dont think I ever heard a complete sentence spoken at that place.
Oh I am looking, and IT is HOT in this area right now. Have a phone interview tomorrow which has possibilities, and would get me back up to what I was making previously.

I've always suspected I've had ADHD, I had a learning disability all throughout K-12, but never had it officially diagnosed until now. At least now I can do something about it. Plus ADHD might be a bit of a help in an industry like mine where multitasking is a thing.
 
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I'm not an expert in this area, but I personally don't buy into ADD and ADHD as diseases that require medication.

ADHD is a mental "disorder" based only on a checklist of behaviors. It is not a disease. There is no medical ADHD test to prove any kid has ADHD, yet more than 4.5 million kids have been diagnosed and put on drugs such as Ritalin, Adderall and Concerta, which the U.S. DEA places in the same highly addictive category of drugs as cocaine, morphine and opium.

The "checklist" for ADHD could fit all normal kid as there is no ADHD test - it is diagnosed solely by behaviors and literally includes such ridiculous criteria as the following:

" runs about or climbs excessively in situations when it is not appropriate"
" is often 'on the go
"acts as if driven by a motor"
"blurts out answers"
"is easily distracted"
" loses pencils or toys"
"often doesn't seem to listen"

To be perfectly clear — this is all that it takes to diagnoses a child with a 'mental disorder' of ADHD; a checklist of behaviors (the above is taken directly from the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), psychiatry's billing bible. There are no blood tests, brain scans, chemical imbalance tests, X-rays or "genetic" factors to prove any child has a mental "illness" called ADHD. This is simply a list of child-like behaviors that psychiatrists clustered together, repackaged as a mental disorder and the result is a multi- billion dollar empire — the child labeling and drugging industry.
 

HecticArt

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I’ve got ADD. Meds actually help. I used to get distracted part way through a paragraph I was reading and would have to reread it a few times before it soaked in. If I forget to take a pill in the morning, I notice lack of focus For sure.

I agree that the list of symptoms for kids is the same as the list of symptoms for kids with ADHD / ADD. (See what I did there?) I also agree that meds are very often over prescribed and parents should do what you do, and question when Dr’s want to prescribe drugs like this. I wouldn’t count the pills out when they really can help a kid, especially where their schooling is concerned. College would have been easier for me if I didn’t have work so hard to get through those super boring books.
 

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For me it's like ADHD without the hyperactivity. Concentration level sucks, have always had some form of learning disability all throughout school, I always have to make absolutely sure I put things in one place to not lose them the next day, I could go on further but we'd be here all day.. I am taking Adderall at 5mg (not sure if that's enough yet or not, follow up is in a month) and with everything going on lately, that's likely exacerbated the issue. The distraction issues are also a thing for me as Hectic mentioned. It affects my college studies as much as anything else when I have to go over several things over and over, and can't retain information. Especially in my line of work, IT, most of the certifications I've read up on are dry as shit information-wise. Medicine has come quite a ways since the early days where they just said mental illness was all in your head and gave lobotomies to the worst cases.

In my consultation with my doctor, the addictive characteristics of the medication were mentioned. Everyone I have talked to who is on the drug says as much, but they also mention how much it's helped them maintain their life, and help control the symptoms. I am also taking medication currently to relieve anxiety symptoms leading to depression, it helps as well. I do things also to try to maintain a healthy lifestyle, diet, exercise, things like that. I don't know that I'll be on it forever.

On a personal level I've always thought cocaine and other schedule 1 drugs should be legalized and used for medicinal purposes, or at least studied to do so. Marijuana and magic mushrooms have seen their way to combat things like PTSD, depression and other mental issues fairly successfully. I think other scheduled drugs that are so reviled could hold possibilities for other diseases and disorders.
 

scotchandcigar

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I'm not an expert in this area, but I personally don't buy into ADD and ADHD as diseases that require medication.

ADHD is a mental "disorder" based only on a checklist of behaviors. It is not a disease. There is no medical ADHD test to prove any kid has ADHD, yet more than 4.5 million kids have been diagnosed and put on drugs such as Ritalin, Adderall and Concerta, which the U.S. DEA places in the same highly addictive category of drugs as cocaine, morphine and opium.

The "checklist" for ADHD could fit all normal kid as there is no ADHD test - it is diagnosed solely by behaviors and literally includes such ridiculous criteria as the following:

" runs about or climbs excessively in situations when it is not appropriate"
" is often 'on the go
"acts as if driven by a motor"
"blurts out answers"
"is easily distracted"
" loses pencils or toys"
"often doesn't seem to listen"

To be perfectly clear — this is all that it takes to diagnoses a child with a 'mental disorder' of ADHD; a checklist of behaviors (the above is taken directly from the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), psychiatry's billing bible. There are no blood tests, brain scans, chemical imbalance tests, X-rays or "genetic" factors to prove any child has a mental "illness" called ADHD. This is simply a list of child-like behaviors that psychiatrists clustered together, repackaged as a mental disorder and the result is a multi- billion dollar empire — the child labeling and drugging industry.
As those guys have said, there are historically valid points about making blanket diagnoses in kids, and overprescribing. And we're all entitled to our opinion/life experience. That being said, you obviously quoted an opinion that is full of subjective predispositions.

My younger daughter, who was born 3 months premature, and was 1 lb. 10 oz. at birth, has very mild CP. Among the observations, treatments, and therapies she received was a long neurological study, done at an early age, and again when she was an adolescent. She never had a "brain scan", a blood test, an X-ray or a chemical test to determine her condition. Those things are not part of most neurological evaluations. So to say that ADHD isn't real, because those things aren't performed, is simply a red herring. Other "real" mental conditions, such as depression and anxiety, also don't utilize any of those procedures to diagnose.

Similarly, the focus on terminology - such as disease vs. condition vs. disorder - is also a ploy to cast doubt over those who make the diagnoses. And finally, the perception that "kids being kids" are getting diagnosed as having ADHD is probably true to a certain extent, but as Hectic and Jon can attest, that doesn't mean that ADHD doesn't exist, or that treatment isn't necessary for anyone.
 

sadchild

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I have a theory. Still not an expert here. But I have a theory.

If someone were hypnotized and told that they'll be afraid in social situations, would they be then later diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder and given medication for it? If so, would it make more sense to remove the hypnotic suggestion instead of drugging them?

I'm going somewhere with this...

(And sorry for hijacking the "May Be Dropping Facebook" thread here)
 

IdRatherBeSkiing

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I have a theory. Still not an expert here. But I have a theory.

If someone were hypnotized and told that they'll be afraid in social situations, would they be then later diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder and given medication for it? If so, would it make more sense to remove the hypnotic suggestion instead of drugging them?

I'm going somewhere with this...

(And sorry for hijacking the "May Be Dropping Facebook" thread here)
We haven't talked about Facebook for several pages.