Adventures In Koopland
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JHDK
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thank u hectic. i know ur an internet friend, but nonetheless ur a good friend who cares. that makes me feel nice.
now i feel dumb. emotions are for women.
JHDK
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Talked to them again today, we're now thinking maybe outpatient but in the meantime I went to my first AA meeting in like over a year this morning. I'll go to NA tonight. The place I go to hosts both 7 days a week, AA in the morning and NA at night. I was going to the NA ones for a bit before my last little binge. And it's super convenient, it's like 0.5 miles from my house.
zevious
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I have heard of people having good results using this program: Narconon | Drug Rehabilitation | Drug Education
JHDK
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Well isn't this some shit...of course my life works out like this.
So I have a first date this evening. Some girl from Boca...She asked me out, which was an interesting change of pace. I'm gonna head up there and take her to dinner later on.
Guess what coincidentally happened today, the ex called. The ex that I cried about here in so many posts. The ex who if I'm being honest, I'm still in love with...not any of the randos I had some fun hanging out with for a couple months or so over the past 18 months. Of course she needs something. And of course I'm a fucking sucker and told her I'd be happy to do it. We did have a good chat though. I told her how I still feel and she doesn't feel the same way. I hold out hope that I can show her I won't make the same mistakes and things might change at some point. But like I said, I'm a sucker. Whatever guys...I'm pretty sure this will wind up ending in more sadness but I'm going to give it a shot...because I'm stupid.
On a somewhat related note, I was thinking about posting an update here before the events of today.
IDK, I've been thinking (a dangerous pass time I know) about how it's kinda odd that before the second half of 2019 I was either single for very long stretches of time and not even trying to change that, or in a weird on again off again relationship with a girl I had known for years. Since then (and the breakup with the main one) I have now dated 4 women, and had fun for a time with them all. I don't know what changed. Yea I was helping my dad for a year or so but even before that I wasn't actively pursuing new people. My best guess is because I'm getting old and want to find someone to stick with long term. Who knows? Maybe a shrink could figure it out but I have no plans to get into that world.
So I have a first date this evening. Some girl from Boca...She asked me out, which was an interesting change of pace. I'm gonna head up there and take her to dinner later on.
Guess what coincidentally happened today, the ex called. The ex that I cried about here in so many posts. The ex who if I'm being honest, I'm still in love with...not any of the randos I had some fun hanging out with for a couple months or so over the past 18 months. Of course she needs something. And of course I'm a fucking sucker and told her I'd be happy to do it. We did have a good chat though. I told her how I still feel and she doesn't feel the same way. I hold out hope that I can show her I won't make the same mistakes and things might change at some point. But like I said, I'm a sucker. Whatever guys...I'm pretty sure this will wind up ending in more sadness but I'm going to give it a shot...because I'm stupid.
On a somewhat related note, I was thinking about posting an update here before the events of today.
IDK, I've been thinking (a dangerous pass time I know) about how it's kinda odd that before the second half of 2019 I was either single for very long stretches of time and not even trying to change that, or in a weird on again off again relationship with a girl I had known for years. Since then (and the breakup with the main one) I have now dated 4 women, and had fun for a time with them all. I don't know what changed. Yea I was helping my dad for a year or so but even before that I wasn't actively pursuing new people. My best guess is because I'm getting old and want to find someone to stick with long term. Who knows? Maybe a shrink could figure it out but I have no plans to get into that world.
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IdRatherBeSkiing
Sherbert is NOT and NEVER WILL BE ice cream.
My guess is your ex figured out you had another date and found something she needed you for .... or she is just a needy bitch and will continue using you until you tell her to just fuck off and leave you alone. You need to walk away. </unsolicited advice>
JHDK
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This is probably more likely. She needs help and knows I won't say no. The dating site I use only shows other users the last time you logged in and your public facing profile. I don't know how she could have possibly figured out I'm going to hang with someone else. Plus we made tonight's plans over texting.
You're right. I know you're right but I doubt I'll be following that advice.
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JHDK
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Well that was a very interesting first date. Apparently she had been consoling her roommate who just broke up with her boyfriend for the last couple days. Somehow that got us to talking about the CRAZY sex stuff the roommate is into. That in turn lead us to discussing what we were into.
Moral of the story is it appears the two of us are probably going to be having some fun in the coming (hehe) weeks.
I was not expecting it to go like this at all. It was a pleasant surprise.
Moral of the story is it appears the two of us are probably going to be having some fun in the coming (hehe) weeks.
I was not expecting it to go like this at all. It was a pleasant surprise.
HecticArt
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Best advice ever.
Proof that you've got options. You don't need someone that uses you and doesn't care about you.
It's time to take care of yourself.
JHDK
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Went to Melbourne this week for 2 reasons. First my single aunt's daughter was on vacation from her home in Ireland with her 6 year old son...so I guess my second cousin. I had never met him so it was nice. He got to spend a week in Disney with his mom and grandmom and seemed to love it. I got him a cool $20 batman action figure that had wings.
Not sure If I mentioned this before but I also hired a lawyer to write me a simple will, living will and a durable power of attorney. Since I'm single w/o kinds I split everything 33.3% between my two aunts and uncle. And I gave Sally power of attorney then Paul then Kathleen if some of them die off. And for the living will I pretty much want them to let me die if I'm dependent on any sort of life support or if recovery would severely alter my current state of physical wellbeing. Lawyers are cheaper in Melbourne and it's the same guy my aunt and uncle used and they like him so I went with him. Everything has been written and I reviewed it all so all that was left was me to sign it. I had an appointment for yesterday. They call me at 8 am to say they have to reschedule. Whatever, it is annoying but starting next week I won't be blacked out from Disney anymore so I'll be heading that way a bunch in the coming weeks. It will be nice to see my aunt and uncle again so soon.
Not sure If I mentioned this before but I also hired a lawyer to write me a simple will, living will and a durable power of attorney. Since I'm single w/o kinds I split everything 33.3% between my two aunts and uncle. And I gave Sally power of attorney then Paul then Kathleen if some of them die off. And for the living will I pretty much want them to let me die if I'm dependent on any sort of life support or if recovery would severely alter my current state of physical wellbeing. Lawyers are cheaper in Melbourne and it's the same guy my aunt and uncle used and they like him so I went with him. Everything has been written and I reviewed it all so all that was left was me to sign it. I had an appointment for yesterday. They call me at 8 am to say they have to reschedule. Whatever, it is annoying but starting next week I won't be blacked out from Disney anymore so I'll be heading that way a bunch in the coming weeks. It will be nice to see my aunt and uncle again so soon.
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JHDK
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They all go to Mrs. IdRather.